Men Are Affraid of Relationship, Really???
Posted: Saturday, December 31, 2011
by RaoWords
RaoWords
Men try to act like they care less about relationships and family but somewhere somehow any red-blooded man wants to settle down
Sure the urge may be low before 26 years but by 32 they are drunk with desire to have a companion and feel wanted. However there could be various reasons why their desires may not be fulfilled. This reasons range from the character of an individual to certain habits and mannerisms.
Unkempt hair
Women are very observant and can weed out a potential mate based on their physical attributes. One of the physical attributes that could be subtracting your overall points is hair…more women are attracted to a clean shaven man than a afro-dreaded man especially when considering one for marriage
Dirty nails
Women will have little to do with you if your nails are always long and dirty. They will always ask themselves this, "if his nails are in that state, what about his house".
Bad body odor
No one what to come into close proximity with a person who pongs let alone settle down with them, so you may actual be repelling them rather than attracting them.
That protruding tummy
Who ever said that a tummy is actually attractive to ladies was actually lying…women by nature look for healthy men who hold more promise to healthy offspring…a full tummied fellow is not exactly top of the range material now, is he?...dressing up a plus size husband is also no piece of cake
Zero vision
Women it is said have a goal in mind but do don't have the discipline, control, guts, and perseverance to push through the end…that is why women look to get men who can enable them be the best they can be by providing the required direction…it is also said that still some women don't have any goals at all so ride on a man vision and goals…so what do you think happen when a man is without any vision?, he seizes to be what a man should be to a woman hence becomes unattractive
Scared cat
One of the basic needs of a woman is security…so if you are a coward you will probably not make it…you don't have to walk around beating up everyone you see but be ready to defend a woman when you have to…if you scream when you see a cockroach and you are on the long path to loneliness
Picking your nose
There some few men who are just shameless enough to pick their noses in public…this behavior simply represents everything that is uncouth and irksome…now with that do you think you can shake off the singleness?
One too many drinks
Drinking is a not bad thing but it is drinkers who make it really evil…some have too many "one-for-the-road's" you would think they live half way across the globe…they not only drink but drown themselves in alcohol consequently engaging in not so good manners that would repel anyone let alone a woman
Void off confidence and self esteem
A man without confidence is like a woman with bad hair or make up…he just doesn't't please any one…a man confidence makes a woman more secure and comfortable…a mans confidence shows in how decisive he is, how he walks, the tone his voice etc…confidence on a man is like good perfume to a woman, it attracts them.
Live at your mums
A man may have all the confidence from here to Norway or even might be some prince charming but as long as the horses stable is at his moms a woman will not touch him…a man living with his moms gives off the view that he is immature and irresponsible and can not hold on to the responsibilities of an adult
Whiner and emotionally unstable
No mater what a real man doesn't tell his issues to all en sundry, he doesn't complain or throw tantrums…he just keeps his issues to himself or works to find solutions…women are attracted to men for their emotional stability and ability to solve problems, therefore a whiner would just not make it
Your boys
A woman wants to feel like she is the most important person to you, she doesn't what to feel neglected for anything or anyone…therefore some things have to give,like say your boys…off course you don't have to forget them altogether but, see them less often
You are not pursuing her
The most over seen reason why you are still single is the fact that you are not pursuing women…sure you may be rejected more than once but how do you get the one who accepts you if you cant risk rejection? Get up from that couch and make a run after them while you can still run as fast
care to share any more reasons to help a brother out
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Top-level comments on this article: (2 total)A spelling error in your title, is like wearing an expensive tuxedo with your zipper wide open; it detracts!Hey Paul,
Thanks a lot.
I will keep my eyes open rather than the Zipper, haha ;-)
My laziness kills me many times, I will edit the article right away.
Your typing and spelling may be off but your observations are right on the mark. I've thrown back a lot of guys, and for just these reasons. Still I hear a man say "She has to take me as I am." No, that's obviously not working. Stupid is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome. Wish more men would read this stuff and do something about it. I'd be dating a lot more! Please use spell check and go over your column once more before posting . . . your ideas are great, it's the medium that's holding you back.I am usually busy, most of the times write stuff in matter of couple of minutes.
I am a lazy dude, who likes to “Throw out" rather than “Think Out" for words and emotions.
Points noted and will take care of these things while writing my future posts.
Thanks a lot, hope to listen more from you.
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